Sunday, November 16, 2008

Wedding Dress : Choosing Between Two Gowns You Love




Every woman dreams of the moment when she finally meets The One. The perfect wedding dress, that is. Every woman dreams of the moment when she finally meets The One. The perfect wedding dress, that is. But what do you do when you fall in love with two gowns?

The budget bride.
Let the prices guide your decision. Eliminate the gown that is more expensive, especially if your budget is already tight. Just be aware that an expensive veil or extensive alternations could drive up the price of a previously affordable gown.

Likewise, the less expensive gown may be priced lower for a reason. Never settle for a dress that isn't made from quality fabric or that isn’t properly tailored.

Fit for the occasion.
Select the dress that most closely matches your wedding's level of formality. Trying to decide between a flirty, short dress and a lengthy gown? Choose the latter if your ceremony is being held at a country club or similar venue. If you're marrying in a casual ceremony, a flirty dress would probably be more appropriate.

Keep in mind that your gown should also be appropriate for the climate on your wedding day. A light, sleeveless dress might seem perfect when you try it on in July, but may be less comfortable for your January wedding.

Gown games.
Use your imagination to uncover your wedding dress preference. Pretend you are in a bridal salon and the sales person takes away one of the two dresses. Then, think about the gown you would be most upset to lose. Another trick is to take a quarter and assign each dress to one side of the coin. Pretend that you have to buy whichever dress represents “heads.” Then flip the coin. Are you excited or upset? Your response will reveal which dress you really prefer.

Point by point.
Make a list of the pros (beautiful beading) and cons (very expensive) of each dress. Choose the dress with the most pros and the fewest cons. You could also make a list of factors that are important to you (fabric, price, designer, fit, etc.) and decide which dress is best in each group.

Ask the experts.
You may need a second (or third or forth!) opinion in order to make a decision. Take pictures of the two dresses and have your friends vote on each one. You could also ask for the help of a decisive friend who won't give you a wishy-washy answer. Sometimes a firm opinion can point you in the right direction!

Have It Both Ways.
If your budget allows it and you really can't make a choice, buy them both! You can wear the more formal dress to the reception and change in to the other gown before the reception.
The budget bride.
Let the prices guide your decision. Eliminate the gown that is more expensive, especially if your budget is already tight. Just be aware that an expensive veil or extensive alternations could drive up the price of a previously affordable gown.

Likewise, the less expensive gown may be priced lower for a reason. Never settle for a dress that isn't made from quality fabric or that isn’t properly tailored.

Fit for the occasion.
Select the dress that most closely matches your wedding's level of formality. Trying to decide between a flirty, short dress and a lengthy gown? Choose the latter if your ceremony is being held at a country club or similar venue. If you're marrying in a casual ceremony, a flirty dress would probably be more appropriate.

Keep in mind that your gown should also be appropriate for the climate on your wedding day. A light, sleeveless dress might seem perfect when you try it on in July, but may be less comfortable for your January wedding.

Gown games.
Use your imagination to uncover your wedding dress preference. Pretend you are in a bridal salon and the sales person takes away one of the two dresses. Then, think about the gown you would be most upset to lose. Another trick is to take a quarter and assign each dress to one side of the coin. Pretend that you have to buy whichever dress represents “heads.” Then flip the coin. Are you excited or upset? Your response will reveal which dress you really prefer.

Point by point.
Make a list of the pros (beautiful beading) and cons (very expensive) of each dress. Choose the dress with the most pros and the fewest cons. You could also make a list of factors that are important to you (fabric, price, designer, fit, etc.) and decide which dress is best in each group.

Ask the experts.
You may need a second (or third or forth!) opinion in order to make a decision. Take pictures of the two dresses and have your friends vote on each one. You could also ask for the help of a decisive friend who won't give you a wishy-washy answer. Sometimes a firm opinion can point you in the right direction!

Have It Both Ways.
If your budget allows it and you really can't make a choice, buy them both! You can wear the more formal dress to the reception and change in to the other gown before the reception.

Taken from : http://www.weddingbycolor.com/

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